Adultery and marital sex in Vietnam
Extramarital
sex and adultery in Vietnam A study by the UN found that 40% of Vietnamese
married men have engaged in extramarital relations. Reuters' Grant McCool
wrote: "Vietnamese people adhere to traditional values, but they do not
live in a conservative society, according to most Western residents of Vietnam.
" Rice is eaten six days a week and pho is eaten on the seventh day,
"is a remark made by some Vietnamese to suggest extramarital relationships
or liaisons with prostitutes. When a married man's phone beeps or vibrates
loudly, jokes about "the cat" (a lover) calling may follow. Young
people begin having sexual relations at the same age as their parents,
according to research on youth conducted by a number of organizations, but they
differ from them in that their parents are married and they are not. HD
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Adultery
seems to be more tolerable among younger generations, especially those who grew
up during doi moi. Today, having sex with someone other than one's spouse is
accepted as a valid reason if one is unhappy in their marriage, sexually
unfulfilled, or simply attracted to them (Khuat Thu Hong 1998). Fahey (1998)
claims that middle-class urban women frequently confide in casual interviews that
their husbands have a mistress or host multiple girlfriends. It is typical for
women to have hidden savings because they are still in charge of the household
budget and the welfare of the kids. This serves as a safeguard against their
husbands' affairs with other women. The idea that a woman found guilty of
adultery would be thrown to a specially trained elephant, which would then
throw her into the air with its trunk and crush her to death when she landed,
has been reported in a number of sources dating back to the nineteenth century.
The
enthusiasm with which European authors disseminated this tale is quite telling.
"An adulteress shall receive ninety blows of the rattan upon her
buttocks," read one of the early Annamite Code's articles. "Her
husband may afterwards marry her to another, or sell her if he pleases, or keep
her in his house." The Le Code, as quoted by Jacobus X. in 1898, states
that shop men who commit adultery with their master's wife will be treated as
slaves or servants and strangled as a form of punishment. According to O'Harrow
(1995), shame-based constraints rather than guilt-based ones are used to
enforce moral values in Vietnamese society. As long as no one knows, a
Vietnamese woman can (in the Western sense) cheat on her husband without
feeling guilty. The proverb "Flirtations with desire, I wore a wedding
ring for protection; I lost my wedding ring, but my desire remains"
exemplifies the point. Vietnamese men, on the other hand, are aware of the
"rules of the game" and are less likely than Vietnamese women to
boast about their victories in public.
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